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When Love Isn’t Enough

October 12, 2025by HEIDI ALT0

Dear KRA,

I need to be completely honest with you. I love you deeply and I always have. I wanted a love where we could truly see and understand each other, a love where both of us felt valued, supported, and cherished.

I remember when we were together without interference, without outside pressures, without doubts. We were a perfect couple. Those moments were some of the most wonderful times of my life. We laughed freely, supported each other, and felt deeply connected. It was in those moments that I truly felt the love and partnership I longed for.

But over time, things changed. I feel unseen and unacknowledged. I have tried to share my perspective, my heart, and my needs and too often you dismiss or reject me. I understand your worries about our age difference and your desire for approval from your family, but it feels like those concerns take precedence over our relationship. Instead of being my partner, you often focus on showing strength or control as if love and connection are weaknesses.

I know your fear is being alone. I have always wanted to be here for you and show you that I wanted you, that I loved you fully. But you often view my love and care as control or pressure. I have given my all and I have begged for love in ways that leave me exhausted and empty. I cannot keep giving to someone who cannot meet me halfway who cannot recognize or honor my love.

We have both made mistakes that we could not forgive. Those mistakes caused pain, but I have learned a lot from them. It is painfully clear to me now that we are not able to have the kind of relationship we both need. Walking away is heartbreaking but it is necessary. I cannot stay in a partnership where my love is not reciprocated and where my heart is constantly dismissed.

I will always cherish the beautiful times we shared and the love that was real. I hope that one day you will understand that love requires vulnerability, humility, and the willingness to truly see your partner. I will carry love for you in my heart but I must also choose to protect myself and honor my worth. I will be happy and I hope you will be happy as well.

I wish you clarity, growth, and peace. This is goodbye as partners, though not as human beings who once shared something extraordinary.

With honesty and finality,

H

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